Relationships with self reflect how we
value and relate to the world around us, including personal and business relationships.
We begin with my Relationships because in my experience it is
the quality of our relationships shape us, they influence the choices we make, they
can also be a very powerful catalyst for change as Anthony
Robbins continues to remind
I love to study success.Robert Kiyosaki forms relationships with business associates as well as having a remarkable
marriage with his wife Kim, who empowers him as he empowers her, I personally was around Robert over 3plus years
during his friequent tours in Australia
The most memorable relationship I’ve ever experienced was with a courageous man who was willing
to follow his feelings.
I met him while he was here on a business trip.
We had an instant attraction and made the most of the evening, knowing his return home the
following night was critical.
I drove him to the airport on time, we hugged and kissed, and he said he would be back in two
weeks time. I watched him board the plane then drove home.
Half an hour later I was surprised by a knock on the door; there stood my man - the man I left at
the airport presented me with a fabulous bottle of champagne and simply said: “I missed my
For an average working man to miss the plane back to work may be easy to do, but when you have a
company with millions of dollars at stake it takes some courage.
It would have been so easy to use the company as an excuse not to feel his most important
feelings. We enjoyed the rest of the evening and many more years together.
Though he travelled between Melbourne and the Gold Coast every
two weeks, and I worked full-time as an interior designer, we shared every possible moment together. He would
collect me from my office and take me with him to business dinners. When he had site meetings after hours I was
there with him; when he dined with his business partners and their business
I was by his side, so were the partners or wives of his business associates
Successful men and women rarely dine
We were also available
for one another when we were thousands of kilometres apart: whenever I thought of him he would sense that and I
would receive a phone call from him saying that he thought of me at that exact same time. Even though we were both
very busy people.
Because we were there for one another, time
did not exist, it just flowed.
We were truly connected.
Whenever he had
site meetings after hours, I was there with him, when he dined with his business partner and their business
connections I was there with him also, these were successful businesspeople who
valued their women, they chose their life partners to be there by
their sides, this empowered them. (more to come on that later)
There are no excuses big enough to be separate from the one you truly desire to be with, to sleep
with, to share our precious time with. Time is something one cannot buy, trade or exchange but by how we
manage it. to fully appreciate life we need great people around us to enable that free time for ourselves,
when we truly access our lives we do not desire to be alone for too long.
Dare to Truly Care
Have you ever dared to care this much about who you spend your
Do you know if the people you chose to be with are by your
Have you ever allowed your feeling to show to this
Would you like to discover this level of connection for
I have a background in
interior design, project coordination, sales marketing, and music. I then studied Health (while studying I worked
full time while attending classes full time and had time for personal and social life) and subsequently worked in
the most prestigious of health retreats.
While working at Camp Eden Health Retreat I heard about Robert
Kiyosaki the story of how I arrived there shall be added at a later date, in the meantime I'd like to
share this with you.
I was also invited to
travel with renowned author and success coach Anthony Robbins for a year.
My travel began as part
of his R & R team in his Savu Savu Namale resort in Fiji.
Below Tony speaks about
the difference between success and no success the difference is often just a millimeter out.
While there, I met a
gentleman who was willing to pay $1,000,000.00 ( and he did) for the privilege of travelling and being coached by
This man was there
because he wished to attract a specific woman and he was willing to dedicate a whole year and 1 million US$ to work
on himself. Why? Because he knew that to achieve anything one needs to work on oneself first, not on the other
Yet remarkably I hear
ordinary people giving excuses for choosing not to connect even for a few hours, imagine how limiting that belief
system, there is always a way of setting aside time to improve one self
We are shaped by
our experiences and determination; qualifications and at times even experience not always
At the end of the
day it is our attitude that gets it for us.
Prior to becoming interior designer I had a remarkable challenge.
I chose to change direction in my life, take up anew profession, the feeling was so
In seeking through job opportunities, I spotted an ad for curtain sales. This appealed to me
since I've always loved presenting my home beautifully plus I had a strong sales background. That was not my
ultimate dream, but it had possibilities because ultimately I loves sales and was great at it. I would only
ever sell what I loved and knew well.
The position advertised was strictly
I had absolutely
no experience, therefore I left it for a few days to enable them to interview the prospects, then I called; stating
clearly that I had no experience, butI so wanted to
They informed me the applicants they've had so far despite
being very experienced were not suitable primarily due to their attitude and presentation. Their intention
was to advertise again the following weekend, and if they did not have a suitable applicant, I would be
I waited a few days again, giving them time to meet/access the
applicants suitability, I know how valuable experience is to a business, the expense of training is
staggering especially if they do not last the distance.
A few days later I turned up at the store, the owner was busy
so I waited ( for hours), again they wished to try the third week advertising for experienced prospect, by
then I knew the job was mine, I really wanted that change so much.
Within a few days I received that call inviting me to join
them, I was ecstatic.
Why am I sharing this with you? People expect to get a job
based on a piece of paper, qualifications are not everything. The right attitude can be trained for the job.
The job application based on a CV does not necessarily reflect great attitudes.
About interior design;
I joined the business as a protege, my employer was my mentor, I had not studied interior design,
it was my attitude that was hired, within 3 months I was running the Qld operations
designing quotingcoordinating millions of dollars worth of
projects every month.
Involved with every aspect including designing, costing, tracking the orders for each job,
coordinating all the trades and working to deadlines. ( To earn my place for this position I accepted
nominal remuneration, started work often at 6 am, had a second job in the evenings, when not working evenings,
I often worked back till 9pm, again I had a fabulous social life and love life.)
It's all about
timemanagement. I find most people offer so little of
themselves, never knowing how much a fully involved life is truly worth.)
Weekends were full of fun, laughter and great company often on Yachts, Luxury Cruiser,
magnificent dinners in top restaurants that provided exceptional service, with fabulous people who respected each
When you love what you do, you are energized by it you are truly part of
your existence not just a slave to a well worn path.
delivery. placement. finishes, meeting deadlines and ensuring all payments were received, some due to the vastness of the projects were progress
with a dedicated team that delivered excellence and on time, something few have had the privilege of
Most important of all was
completing every project on schedule.Delays are costly, momentum is lost and are not
tolerated in any successful business.
Rhon is a remarkable mentor to me & in particular Robert Kiyosaki with whom I trained followed by
assisting in his seminars facilitating wherever required. Robert has co-written a book with Donald
Consistent desire, purpose and
I have been a pianist,
and a good one. But without a teacher to direct me, challenge me, and support me I could not have passed all the exams. Without encouragement I
would not have exercised my fingers by practicing scales every day up to 2 hours, next to perfecting my
Because of my teacher’s
encouragement I could play the piano for hours and still be wanting more. I started when I was 9 years old, a year
after arriving in Australia, on a friend’s piano, and started teaching piano at the age of 12.
Please don't let your assumptions
prevent you from making a discovery that could be a turning point in your life.
My Life Coaching is
unlike anything you have ever experienced. Like the Passion of the Dance - this level of Life Coaching connects you
with the universal pulse of life - the rhythm of ecstasy flowing through your entire body, awakening and expanding
your inner capacity for joy, healing, passion, love, and life. This is the dance of the soul that only my Life
Coaching can offer, in its unique and personalized way.
We are all conditioned to
try and fit in, and often when we look for services
We fall into the same patterns and
expectations: remarkably we find comfort in conformity.
There is a tendency to
seek validation; to feel we belong to something. It feels safe, true, but it does not truly liberate
In conformity there is
no growth. In applying yet another system we do not truly break free.
Life Coaching is not a
It is a deep awakening
journey from within.
Each time you touch
and/or are touched you enter into a new environment.
You have evolved since
the last time you were touched; your needs and dreams are more profound; every cell is communicating; inside you
are more and more connected to you. Therefore you touch and respond differently - with yourself, the world around
you, and your partner.
(Coaching) is completely customised to meet your personal (and business) needs and challenges - when you
develop more tools and skills in your life your preferences will change, and my work with you will change
The poet E.E. Cummings
“A lot of people think
or believe or know they feel - but that’s thinking or believing or knowing, not feeling. And poetry is feeling -
not knowing or believing or thinking.”
Almost anybody can learn
to think or believe or know, but not a single human being can be taught to feel.
Why? Because when you
think or believe or know, you carry a lot of other people with you, but the moment you feel you are nobody but
In a world that is doing
its best, night and day, to make you like everybody else, being nobody but yourself means fighting the hardest
battle any human can fight.
---- E.E. Cummings
energy is realized it then requires direction: finding the right guidance and establishing the right environment, including friendships and our work and
surroundings, is critical for most people.
new power is discovered it needs to be harnessed.
matter where you are in life, you can discover quality and embrace and maintain higher standards in
every area of your life.
for less than what you dreamed of. Know that you can always receive what you ask for, and
always give what your friends and partner ask for; imagine there is a way for everyone to get what they
want from those around them.
Once we know what is available to us, we can ask
for more than we ever believed to be possible.
Note from Tasja
If you have had enough
of the void in your life, always seeking but settling for comfortable rather than transforming in the end; if you
have had enough of quick fixes that do not give you the total feeling of love youwant in your life; to take the leapcontact my
officeto learn more.
Us working together (the
team in training - more details on this soon) supported by our unique
skills below is my vision this applies to my work my team as well as with my clients.
Remember what Napoleon Hill
success comes, we are sure to meet with much temporary defeat, and, perhaps, some
When defeat overtakes us, the easiest and
most logical thing to do is quit.
And that is exactly what the majority of
men and women do.
" So, there's no point in being in the
Let's get ourselves into the minority, turn
our lives around, do this for ourselves by becoming healthy in every area of our lives, in
particular our relationship with our bodies, our lover and the people around us".